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Insane

Friday, December 5th, 2008

So we try for two months straight to get our baby to go to bed earlier than like…2 am…and then he finally goes right to bed a little after 10 and stays asleep…and what do we do?  Freak out that he’s in some sort of coma and wake him up to make sure he’s ok.  I know we think he’s a wee unpredictable, but I think he thinks that we are insane.  And we might be.  Luckily he went right back to sleep.  And now I’m worried about that, too.

Today was busy, I got some things cleaned up around the house, got our Christmas decorations up (yay!) (pictures to follow) then ran some errands.  Among the errands ran were returning the Avent bottle warmer we bought that turned out to be crap.  So sad.  It wasn’t cheap, either.  Which is why it got returned.  What I’ve been doing is heating water in the microwave (I KNOW, I know) and then adding the powder after to make sure that the heat is dispersed before giving it to Camper.  We never make it hot enough to have a problem.  The only thing is, when we travel we need something we can use in the car/hotel room.  And not sink water…I have an issue with sink water.  Also, floating the bottle in water seems like an exercise in futility.  Does that really work for anyone else?  And what do you do with the screaming baby while waiting for the bottle to warm up?  The hula?  No one likes the hula at 2am.  Just saying.

I think I’ve had three days straight of going back and forth between being completely overwhelmed by a cross-country move over Christmastime (STRESS!!) and completely in awe of my child.  I feel like I can’t get anything done, but I just keep getting distracted by the amazing things Camper is doing these days.  I can’t believe how much he’s changed!  When I pick him up now he nuzzles into my neck and hugs me with his arms.  I can not even tell you how amazing that feels.  He looks at me and makes screamy noises when he wants to be picked up.  If he’s playing next to me and I start paying too much attention to my computer or food or what have you, he starts grunting and kicking his legs.  All of a sudden he needs me.  I know he ALWAYS needed me, but now he knows it.  John and I are no longer blurry entities with arms and soothing smells and voices, we are Mommy and Daddy.  I love it when I’m in the kitchen and see John’s car pull up and start to tell Camper, “Daddy’s home!” and he gets all excited.  When John walks in he watches him walk around until he comes over and holds him for a bit.  When my brother was visiting tonight Camper just kept saying, “Goo” until Jonathan finally answered him.  Then he smiled his shy/flirty smile and stopped saying it.  All signs point to my son becoming a social creature.  It’s exciting to watch, and it makes the late night feedings all that more rewarding.  Along with the hula, that is.

The Big Plans We’ve Made

Wednesday, December 3rd, 2008

I think it’s time for list making.  I need a list for what we need in this house to get us through til moving day.  (This month!!)  I was going to try and just use up every last bit of meat in the freezer and not buy anything new, but it only took one Sunday experiment with “frostbite stew” let me know that we will be buying groceries, probably til the end.  Then of course we just HAD to run out of things we probably won’t finish before we go, fabric softener, shampoo, etc.

I need a list of what I need to do to get my applications into school.  The GRE, applications, letters of recommendations, etc.  Due date: January 1st.  I need a list of packing procedures.  We’ve got a lot of stuff in this house, and there is a need to plan out what we do with baby stuff, what will go in the cars, what will be in the van, and what (if anything) we’ll send ahead.  I’m officially calling all baby travel advice. If there was something that made traveling with an infant easier for you, let me know!

Then there is the paperwork, we’re still dealing with the NICU bill.  Fun.  Apparently because we are students and because I decided to stay at home after having the baby, we are eligible for help with the bills.  We’ve paid a TON of them already, but there is still a huge balance remaining.  The thing that is SO interesting to me is that we had it all planned, we had enough money to take care of the 20% after insurance of a regular labor/delivery outright.  No problem.  But Camper threw us a curveball and spent a week in the NICU resulting in an itemized bill reaching almost $30, 000.  Yup.  I keep threatening to put it in his baby book as a record of his first week of life.  Thankfully we DID have SOME insurance (albeit school insurance), but the paperwork to receive more financial aid is in the works.  So there is that to deal with, as well.  All I know is that our Camper is worth it.  He came to us at the exact right time, and I wouldn’t go back and change a thing.  Except for maybe insisting the nurses give me antibiotics earlier.

So yeah.  A ton of things to do- so today will be list making, some grocery shopping, some cleaning and organizing, and for John: SCHOOL.  School and school stuff.  And some baby cuddling, of course.

Oh! Last night, after my backfire post, Camper was playing and dancing like a crazy little man until about 1 am.  He was making us laugh so much, until he started screaming.  We swaddled him up, put on the white noise and he passed OUT.  Slept from 1:30am to 6:15!!!!!! I am not even kidding.  Then he went back to sleep until 9.  Why does he tease us?

PS: I want to see MARLEY!